I have been thinking a lot about this question lately. I find it essential, because the answer is the one that can help create an original vision for our lives. Otherwise, we would be following dogma, the ideas of other people and walking down that path leads to eventual regret. There is no worse regret than realizing that you lived someone else’s live and your’s is still waiting your you. Sad and melancolich, with a face of: Is it too late?

To avoid this, it is essential to find clarity about what actually move us. What is important to us. How do we want to spend our time? What do w want to do with our energy? What gives us energy and joy every morning?

As far as I am concerned, this is a very personal question. The answers varies a lot. From total freedom and unattachment, to building a company, money, etc.

Where can we find those needs? Are they emotional? Logical? Both? Today I think that our concience gives more importants to some things than others.

One interesting paradox is that the ego and attachment makes easier to create a narrative around what is import to you. However, in the base of non duality, the play brakes apart. Now, it is not about narratives, stories, other people expectations, not even sociaty standars for success.

The answer comes down to our fundamental motivations. Witch are conditioned by our genetics and probably the enviroment.

Great, lets assume that we know our fundamental needs. Teach, Grow, learn, create, serve, contribute now what?

Now, comes the idea of a jerarqui, great. And now after knowing what is more important and what is less important comes down to how exactly?

WUM, it sound like this is the place where I got perfeccionistic in my analisis. Its not about proccess, it is about finding the right answer.

So, the whole problem was solved by the moment you discover who you are not, Who you actually are, what is important to you and what is more important inside the list of important things